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Episode #67 - All About Worry
Worry is a coping mechanism to navigate uncertainty, anxiety, and angst.
The goal is to have some control over our worry, so it doesn't run our thinking without our permission!
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Episode #66 - Practice Makes Perfect....is BS, but it helps!
Practicing anything does not make us perfect at it.
However, practice IS required to get better and to have any skill work for us.
Managing angst when it feels like too much IS a skill. It's also a habit we can...
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Episode #65 - What if they get mad? Loss of approval.
In this episode, I use a low stakes situation to walk through the components of a common problem for sixes, worrying if someone else is going to be mad at us.
Any perceived threats to loss of support can be VERY...
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Episode #64 - Sixiness in Action: A Case Study
In this episode I break down a typical example of my adaptive strategies showing up and not only how I navigate it internally, but how I talk to myself about it on the back end. Use this as a case study and apply the...
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Episode #63 - Is this my sixiness or is it trauma?
This is a question, I get asked a LOT. It shows up in conversations around type 6 often in Enneagram spaces.
This is a delicate conversation with a lot of nuance and room for interpretation. Here is how I’m currently...
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Episode #62 - Anxiety, Let’s Talk About It
 In this episode, I dive into YOUR questions about angst, anxiety, and what in the world we can do about it!
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Episode #61 - Pillars to Sixy Mental Health
What are the areas to focus on in your life to get to a healthy version of you?
Well, I don’t REALLY know, BUT I have some ideas. Here are the main pillars I live by that also inform my coaching philosophy and...
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Episode #60 - Not all questions are created equal
In this episode I reveal how the underlying beliefs we have impact that questions we ask.
I show how, as sixes, we tend to reveal beliefs that disempower us and what we can do about it.
I also share how we can work...
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Episode #59 - Don’t Let Your Six Brain THINK Without Your Permission
In this episode I talk about the importance of learning how to support past versions of ourselves at the level of thought AND feeling.
Just doing one…trying to think differently, won’t work. What does? Tune in to...
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Episode #58 - Self Support is a non-negotiable skill
There is no “health” without a strong, trusting, reliable, SUPPORTIVE relationship with ourselves.
As sixes, what gets in the way and how do we overcome those obstacles to truly get on our own side and stay there as...
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Episode #57 - Diving into Reactivity
I’m back with Aaron Addonizio of Empathy Architects to dig into the topic of reactivity and how it affects sixes in their lives and relationships. An important topic and a fun conversation!
Aaron Addonizio is a...
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Episode #56 - A Sixy Check In For You
In this episode I share something from inside my group coaching program that you can use to assess how you are doing in your life in 8 sixy specific areas.
You can also use this process to decide exactly what you...
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